You don’t need millions. You need the mindset of a man who commands respect without demanding it.
This is the secret sauce. Johnny Love is a persona. He is the man you become when you stop chasing and start attracting.
Johnny Love is not a specific person; he is a composite sketch of the ultimate lover:
Birdette’s friends are also successful, skeptical women. They’ve seen gold-diggers and ego cases.
Birdette watches how you treat waitstaff, how you handle teasing, how you talk about your own mother. Your character impresses her money more than your wallet does.